What Russian and Ukrainian women say about men?

Russian men already do not know how to be good husbands. First of all, I was thinking that maybe I'm so unlucky, but a lot of women (my friends) are very educated, very beautiful, have a very good position in life, and are still unhappy. The question is Why?
Larisa - Saint Petersburg / Russia

When one grew up in a society, he acts according its rules and traditions. "If every friend drinks vodka, has a lover, why should I not do the same?" A lot of Russian men think in this way. The objective reasons why Russians can't make good husbands are alcohol abuse and their poor health conditions. To be honest, I'm afraid to have child with a man whose genetic disposition is to be an alcoholic. I do not know what the situation is in foreign countries, but I read how men respect their wives, how they like to spend time with family and even one thing is that they are in a hurry to come back home to see and spend more time with their family. I think every woman dreams about this. Of course I do not want to speak about all men in a bad way, there are of course men who are healthy and take good care of their families, but they usually get married early and stay married.
Tatyana - Ekaterinburg / Russia

The reality is that many Ukrainian men treat their wives with a large degree of disrespect. Also, with the collapse of the Ukrainian government and economy, most men do not work, or if they do, they make very poor livings that cannot support even themselves.
Yulia - Odessa / Ukraine

Moving to another part of the world is not an easy decision for any of us Russian women. If I will decide to move, it will be just to be with a man who will be right for my family life, who will have the same interest, the same thoughts to start a family. Otherwise it is better to be alone for all of your life. I want for my hopes and dreams to come true. I think it's real and possible to find a kind, caring man to love, to be lived and start a loving happy family.
Daria - Moscow / Russia

I never believed in my life that it's possible to write emails, type them on the computer or the phone and use the Internet to find happiness! The technology is so wonderful nowadays that we are able to find our future husbands.
Elena - Omsk / Russia

It's not a surprise that right now people can find a second half through the Internet. For me, before I met some Ukrainian women who found their future husbands through the internet and spoke with them myself, I never would have even had such thoughts that it's possible to meet a person with whom you can build a serious relationship with, family and fall in Love. I was thinking that just people who have weaknesses in their personality and in their character do this. BUT I was really wrong and mistaken. I know a lot of examples of Ukrainian women who left everything and had risk to move to another country.
Oksana - Lviv / Ukraine

Why am I looking for my foreign man (husband) so far away? I could have never had such kinds of thoughts to do this, but after being disappointed in our men in my life, I decided to try. Who can tell what kind of result I will have, but time will give me the answer. It's true that independence and the family values of foreign men, their attitude toward their wives, attract Russian girls and women.
Svetlana - Ufa / Russia

Ukrainian women want to be confident in a future day. If you give her a little attention, love and care, if you will show her that you appreciate her as a wife and mother, lover, friend at home, she will be there for you until the end of time and her life. This grateful woman will make you 100 times happier if you treat her with diligence and love. This is not a theory, this is what every Ukrainian girl wants, so I really wish to find a right person too to whom I will give all my love, all of my attention, care and even my life to make him happy, to make our children happy, and myself happy.
Natalya - Kiev / Ukraine

Many Russian women -young and older- are going to answer you by saying: SECURITY and LOVE. And it's the truth. Those two things are the most important. I want my future husband to love and understand me. I am not looking for millions of dollars and a luxury life in my future husband, but I'm just looking for someone who is financially secured. What do I mean by "financially secured"? A stable job and the ability to provide the family's needs. But of course I think that both the husband and wife can work to provide for the family.
Anastasia - Kursk / Russia