2 things Ukrainian women hate in men, even if they love each other a lot

It would seem that when a Ukrainian woman loves a man, she is ready to forgive him a lot - in part it is true, but only everything has a limit. There are a few things that a woman wouldn't like, even if she's very much in love with a man. Sooner or later it will come out and misunderstandings begin in the relationship.

Now we are going to talk about such things. On this subject, I had a conversation with some friends, the results I have broken down into 2 categories, which met most often.

1- The first and most obvious is the sloppiness in personal hygiene. Many can argue that all men without exception are already scrupulously watching themselves. But the truth is that if you are watching yourself, it does not mean that others are doing the same. And if you judge by the reviews of girls, there are still such instances, which are a little neglectful of their hygiene.

Of course, here we are not talking about its complete absence, it is really rare. And the fact that men (again, I repeat, not all), being in a relationship, when they realize that they are already loved as they are, over time, begin to allow themselves to openly score on some things. A few days to walk in the same underwear, forget to brush your teeth at night or in the morning, do not look after your beard, if there is one, brush your ears only when they are already starting to come out sulfur, etc.

And as my girlfriends notice, it's hard to see at the beginning of a relationship because everyone in the new relationship tries to look better than they are. But people very rarely change, and as usual later the secret becomes clear and many ladies start to feel uncomfortable. And some may even start avoiding their man openly and avoiding closer contact with him, no matter how much they love him. And this can happen unconsciously, just gradually disappears desire, and the woman words it can not explain - gone and all.

2- The second thing that girls are squeamish about in men is a frank miserliness for everything but their loved one. I understand that in the comments, many men will answer such women that they are just mercenary, but let's look at them first.

Based on the words of my acquaintances, this describes a situation where a man is reluctant to spend on his girlfriend/woman/child/family, but does not deny himself anything.

For example, such men can give a very long account of their woman on the topic that she allowed herself to buy expensive, but high-quality new boots in place of the old holey, but as soon as the new Sony Playstation - without hesitation buy it. And such attitude goes in everything. If an object does not concern such a man directly, he will openly regret the money, but if it is in his interest - the issue is solved quickly and without problems.

Here, as well as in the previous paragraph, also at the first stages of relations, and sometimes even for a very long period of time it is not always possible to see a similar trait of character in a man, ladies are recognized. But then, the awareness of this behavior, Ukrainian women openly disgusted, even if initially felt strong feelings for his chosen one.

2 types of phrases that cause a Ukrainian woman to lose respect for a man if he says them

Whoever says what, but in a relationship a Ukrainian woman should respect the man (the opposite is also necessary, but about this at another time). Without this, it will be difficult to call normal relations - the lady will quickly lose interest in such a gentleman and eventually a breakup will occur sooner or later.

To prevent this, you need to understand one simple axiom - respect for the man is always directly proportional to his confidence in himself. That is, as soon as the first signs of weakness or uncertainty appear - it means that his authority begins to decline. I understand things trivial, but once again it was worth to remind about them.

Therefore, today we will talk about those phrases that expose a man from the negative side when he speaks them.

- Can I meet my friends, go soccer/fishing, buy myself a drink, etc.

Basically in a similar vein speak those who in the childhood were brought up exclusively by Ukrainian women - the habit received from early age, migrates to adult life, only the lady from whom it is necessary to ask the permission, changes.

When a man asks a Ukrainian woman for permission, it already looks terrible. If you need to know the opinion of a woman on a certain issue, you need to take and know her opinion, not approval, permission, blessing, condemnation, etc.

- Where will we go/what will we do/ how will we live, etc.

The subtext of this phrase directly shows the man indecisive. Indecisive, then uncertain = little respect.

And this is completely different from the situation when a man is just interested in the opinion of his lady - this is a typical shift of responsibility, which is not interesting to any Ukrainian woman. In all such situations, it is necessary to ask the direction in which the question will be solved. Be those who lead, and those who lead.