Questions and Answers
- Is there a actual difference between Ukrainian, Belarus or Russian women and women of other countries or is it just a legend?
Definitely there are some difference. And we can’t do anything with it as it is historical development and it influences the typical traits of Slavic women. The women here (in Russia) actually posses some characters that are peculiar only for them. The most major are that: a- they care very much about how they look, b- that usually career is less important for them than home and family.
- Is it safe in Belarus, Ukraine and Russia?
Well, as in any part of the world you will never find yourself in dangerous circumstances if you know where to go and what to do. If you avoid strange acquaintances and dangerous places, don't show your money and follow the essential safety rules, so be assured, that everything will be normal and safe.
- Should I marry my lady in Russia or bring her and marry in Spain?
You are recommended to bring your future wife to Spain and then marry her there. This way, while she is waiting for her living permission in Spain. If you get officially married in Russia, she will have to wait for the specific papers in Russia. You should think well, because in this case the procedure might take up to 4 months or more.
- Why do Russian and Ukrainian women looking for husbands and marriage in foreign countries?
The reason why Russian and Ukrainian women looking for husbands abroad is very plain: they cannot find serious and marriage minded men in their homeland. For example, there are less men (13 million less men than women of marriageable age, according to the latest survey) than women in Belarus, Ukraine and Russia. Also a lot of women are also unhappy in the values and attitudes of local men, and they consider foreign men value family more.
- Are Russian women looking for older men? Can I contact a woman who is 25 years younger than me?
Generally Russian women rather to have a man of their age or within rational age difference. But most ladies from Russia and Ukraine are after serious, mature and marriage minded men so the majority of them will not mind the age difference up to 20 years is he is the right man.
- Are there really a lot of Russian and Ukrainian mail-order brides who want marry foreigners and start a family with them?
There are indeed Russian and Ukrainian women who are open to marrying foreigners and starting a family. However, that doesn't mean these women are for sale or that men can accurately order a bride. Men must still be charming and have
something to offer as a potential husband. What many men think of as "mail order bride" sites are actually just a marriage agencies and dating sites catering to men/women who want to meet singles from different areas of the world.
Unfortunately some of these services are scam, but many are not.
- What are the typical mistakes when dating a Belarus, Russian or Ukrainian girls?
The typical mistakes of men are: not bringing flowers on the first date or meeting, forgetting about signs of attention, not being open, being very serious, forgetting to show sense of humor. These girls enjoy when a man makes them laugh.
- Do Russian, Ukrainian and Belarus women only go after white foreigners or Latino, black etc. as well?
Russian and Ukrainian woman don't go for foreigners, they go for someone they like as who they are.
- Why are some women looking for a man much older than themselves?
It is not uncommon for Ukrainian and Russian women to marry older men, although there are limits. If you are 40, you might be hard-pressed to find an 18-year-old girl, but 24-28 years old is ok. Keep in mind that every woman has her own standards. Some women don’t mind a big age difference (as long as the man is healthy), while others do. They usually indicate their age preference in their profiles.
- Why do Ukrainian women despise local men? I heard its because of prevalent alcoholism among males there and also because social norms in Ukraine give men the right to make their wives serve them as they please. Is that true?
Ukrainian women don't despise Ukrainian men. That's a myth.
- What traits interest Russian and Ukrainian women?
Ukrainian and Russian women like a strong shoulder to lean against. If you are brave , self-confident man with serious intentions, you have all the chances to win a woman’s heart. Did we mention that they also like kind, tender and romantic men.
- Do these ladies expect a man to move to Ukraine/Russia or will be willing to move abroad?
Russian and Ukrainian women are ready to relocate if they find a suitable partner. If there is no clear indication of the country of residence in a woman's profile for a potential husband, it means she will consider a man from any country (of course if he meets her other requirements).
- I heard that it is widely accepted in Russian culture for husbands to have mistresses?
We don't know were you got that from. No Russian woman would allow their husband to "go out" with someone else.
- I found the lady I am communicated with has been reported as a scam. Can this be a mistake?
If you found your woman's name being blacklisted, do not automatically suppose that she is a scammer. There are quite a lot of things that you need to take into consideration:
1- It is possible, that there are more than one woman with certain first and last name. It is even possible that there could be 9 different Elena Ivanova living in one city. Your woman may have nothing to do with a scammer who happened to have the same name and surname.
2- Read the scam report first. Is there any objective evidence of a scam being presented? Or does it sound more like some unhappy man reported her because she didn’t appreciate his attention enough?
If the report presents some real evidence of a scam, then you possibly need to take it seriously and start verifying your woman’s information as soon as possible.
