Is your Russian girl bored? Things to do to bring the love back

Is your Russian girlfriend tired of your cheap date ideas? Well, why don't you do something about it? Continue to bore her to death she probably will dump you for (or worse, cheat you with) some other men. If she is letting you know how tired she is of the relationship, you should see the ominous clouds looming over it.

It's really hard to accept that people change over time. Perhaps you are no longer the fun, exciting person you used to be to your girlfriend. She has probably wondered for a long time about what has changed you and why you have lost your enthusiasm in the relationship. More likely, she has thought of ways to salvage the relationship. But giving up all hope, she is maybe now thinking of leaving you.

But it's still not too late! You still have time to salvage the relationship and bring back the passion that is lost and the love that is long gone? Here are some ways: Well, there is.

Take her out on a vacation

Perhaps she is longing for you to take her to somewhere other than the movie house or the swanky restaurant downtown. And maybe you need a vacation too, right? Now is the time to take a break from work or school and plan a vacation to the beach, the ski resort or somewhere your Russian girlfriend has never been to.

Don't let her know you are taking her on a vacation. Just plan it as a surprise to her. Meantime, just keep in touch with her to bring back some of the love that's gone. But please don't take it long to plan or else things get worse.

Engage in new outdoor activities

Have you both ever tried extreme outdoor sports like rafting, kite sailing, paragliding or bungee jumping? If not, why not try these activities out?

She could be tired of all the things she is doing with you like taking a walk in the park, swimming at the beach or cycling through the woods. Such activities are really great but they become a bore if always done on a routine. There are lots of outdoor activities that both of you can try. Choose one new activity every other week and go for it if it will help adding new spark into the relationship.

You can also looking for new ways to make activities better and more exciting than the usual.

Surprise her in many ways

Is the element of surprise lacking in your relationship? If yes, then you should work to bring it back. Plan little surprises on the appropriate moments like visiting her at work and bringing her not the usual flowers and chocolates but lunch that you cook by yourself (hope she loves it). You can also serenade her every weekend with songs you compose for every occasion or else meet her outside work especially when it rains.

Such things you would do if your girlfriend is one person who matters the most in your life. You would be a kind of dimwit if you don't realize how you're keeping your girlfriend bored. If that's how your Russian girlfriend is feeling right now, then it's time to act and bring back the love.