Five mistakes Belarus girls don't forgive on first date
A first date for most Belarus girls is a defining moment in a relationship. It is on the impression that was received at this stage; the girl makes conclusions about how to build their future relationship with the man. And this first impression is almost impossible to change or correct. Therefore, it is extremely important not to make a number of mistakes that can actually put an end to future relationships.
Below we will share 5 mistakes that are fatal:
- The first mistake: is to be late for a date and pretend that nothing has happened. We would like to mention at once that there really are cases in life when you are late. But one thing is to immediately inform the girl with whom the meeting is scheduled about it. The other thing is to treat it as if everybody has to wait for the king and there is nothing wrong with it.
This disdainful behavior makes the Belarus girl immediately understand that in the future she will be treated the same way. And, of course, no self-respecting girl would agree to tolerate this.
- The second mistake: the other extreme, when a man with all his appearance, behavior and actions shows that he will do everything possible and impossible in order to start a relationship with a particular girl. When he starts to literally settle down in front of the lady, he tries to almost anticipate her wishes, immediately fulfill them, indulge her in everything and agree.
Returning to normal girl who want to have a serious relationship with an adequate man, a Belarus girl will simply not be caught up in this "drooling" behavior on the part of the gentleman. Any woman needs a man. A real, confident, who will be the head of the family, who will make important decisions and who necessarily has his own opinion.
- The third mistake: is to behave in a detached way, showing that a man is not interested in a girl. This behavior is sometimes resorted to by novice pickupers, hoping that this way you can get a girl, and that she wants to "win" this man.
Such a strategy is doubtful in principle, and for the first date, when a woman does not know the man, it will not work, but rather cause the opposite effect. The lady will immediately understand that she is not expecting anything in the future and will not continue to spend time on it.
- The fourth mistake: is when a man speaks only about himself, brags, boasts and tries in every possible way to increase his price. In this case, it becomes clear to the woman that such a gentleman is simply unsure of himself and, most likely, is absolutely nothing.
Confidence of a man, is, in general, one of the decisive factors that attracts women. And this very confidence is noticeably naked look in everything - in behavior, manners, conversation. A confident man shouldn't even try to show it, let alone talk about it. From the first minutes everything becomes clear.
- The fifth mistake: too aggressive rapprochement, when a man unceremoniously invades his personal space. The girl is afraid of it and shows her that the gentleman came on a date only for one purpose - to quickly get his own and disappear.
Almost all Belarus ladies need some time to understand whether this man is right for her and get used to it. After that, the girl herself, starts to show initiative and behavior, showing that she is ready for a rapprochement.
The man may also be the first to try to get closer, but it is necessary to do it from a small point of view - not by chance to attach, take a hand, stroke. The main thing is to take your time and be sure to monitor the reaction of a girl.