7 reasons to marry a divorced Russian or Ukrainian woman with a child
Many men are afraid to take responsibility for a woman with a child who has already managed to be in a bad relationship and get out of them. It seems to them that such a woman will become a ballast for them, and a child will become an unnecessary burden. However, do not rush to part with your sweetheart if you find out that she has a child in her arms, because such ladies have many advantages over young ladies who are inexperienced in love affairs.
1. She knows how to build a serious relationship
She does not amuse herself with fairy tales and illusions about how "they lived happily ever after." She knows very well that you need to work on relationships, compromise, put up with shortcomings, and make decisions together.
2. She is not going to give birth right after the wedding
Despite modern morals, most young women still want to give birth as soon as possible as soon as they get married. Few postpone pregnancy. With a Ukrainian or Russian woman who already has a child, nobody will push you to become a father. You can easily get used to each other, and only after that plan replenishment.
3. You have the opportunity to learn how to communicate with a child
However, she already has a child, and you will have to interact with him somehow. But it's still not the same as having your own child. Yes, you will live together, and you may even have to take part in the upbringing - that’s how your mother decides. But at the same time, the child has a father (who, in general, is not you), and who will most likely bear the main burden.
4. Her family will love you
If you are an adequate person. And again, back to the fact that, despite the fact that time is passing, some things do not change. And if the majority is not horrified by the fact that some women raise children alone, without a husband, then the older generation is still worried about this. So, if you take responsibility for a divorced Russian or Ukrainian woman with a child, you will certainly be praised and your souls not to be respected. And this, admit, is also a big plus, with a young lady this may not be.
5. Such a woman is inclined to openly express complaints, rather than speak in hints
She already spoke with hints and realized that this method would not lead to anything good. She is open to a constructive dialogue and can explain to you in detail what she does not like and why.
6. She is a fully formed personality
She already knows what she wants from life, relationships, with what partner she wants to connect her life. And this, you see, is easier than marrying a girl who has not seen life, has not been in a serious relationship, does not even know for sure whether you suit her or not.
7. She is ready for an equal relationship
She is not interested, and don’t need sponsors. She coped with her life and raised a child without you - and is unlikely to fold her arms and cook in relations with you. Of course, leaning on the man’s shoulder, it will be easier to live, and some sort of household help will come in handy. But she will not confuse a shoulder with a neck and climb on it, hanging legs.
Of course, it is worth taking into account that women, unmarried or divorced, with or without children, are different. And do not judge her by her "baggage". Communicate, get to know her, think about whether you can get along with her as a person, and not as with your mother and ex-wife.