a Russian girlfriend or wife can be the most beautiful thing in the world.
In case you’ve never dated a woman who was born and raised in Moscow or in
any other city of Russia, you won’t believe how supportive and loyal these
women can be.
Unfortunately, most guys will never experience the beauty of dating such a
woman. Yes, that’s the sad truth. And it’s not because these guys don’t
dream about it. Of course they want that. I haven’t met a single guy who
said “no, I don’t like Russian women”.
The problem is not that men don’t want to date these women. The problem is
that they have no clue how to actually do it.
The biggest misconception that most men have is that dating a Russian
woman is the same as dating a Western woman. They think that they have to
say the exact same things and behave in the exact same way in order to
You can believe me when I say that it’s definitely not the same. In fact,
it couldn’t be more different. And I hope that the following 10 survival
tips will help you to learn about this difference and to finally succeed
with Russian women.
1. Dress to
In the USA
it’s cool to wear tank tops, baggy jeans and trucker caps. If you approach
a Russian woman when you walk around like that, you don’t have to wonder
when she rejects you.
You are not
at the beach in Miami, so don’t walk around as if you were. If there is
one thing that Russian women appreciate about men, then it is the way they
dress. They don’t want to date a man who walks around like a hobo.
They want an
elegant gentleman, a man who knows how to dress appropriately. Trade your
tank top for a nice blazer and your chances of meeting the woman of your
dreams will increase significantly.
2. Study the
thing that you should avoid at all cost and that is this:
think about going to Russia before you study the culture.
I am serious. This is one of the
main reasons why Western men fail to meet the love of their life in this
big country. Study the Russian culture,
especially the local dating customs, before you try to meet the local
done that you will know exactly what to do, what to say and when to say
it. This will put you ahead of 99% of guys.
You are on
this site for a reason. It’s not an accident that you landed on a site
that allows you to meet beautiful Russian women. You are here because you
are looking for love.
perfect. Because the easiest way to find love in Russia is by meeting your
future wife online before you meet her in person. Seriously, try online
dating before you fly to Moscow or Kazan in order to find out if this is
something for you.
you wholeheartedly that you will be amazed at how beautiful and friendly
the women on this dating site are.
4. Keep Your
What if you
meet a beautiful Russian woman online and you then decide to meet her in
her home town?
time to book a flight and to pack your suitcase. And it’s also time to
practice how to keep your calm in exciting situations. I mean, you don’t
want to sweat and stutter when you meet her for the first time, do you?
forget how breathtakingly beautiful Russian women can be. They travel to
Russia to meet a girl they met online and bam, the moment they meet her
they are speechless. Of course I don’t have to tell you that this leaves a
How can you
avoid it? Imagine that the most beautiful girl in the world is standing in
front of you. Now try to stay calm and confident. Practice this until you
are ready to meet your Russian princess.
5. She Needs
Some Time to Open Up
I know what
you expect when you meet her for the very first time. You expect her to
smile, to hug you and to smile even more. That’s what you would expect
from an American girl, but that’s not going to happen when you meet a
some time to open up. You can’t expect her to smile and to tell you that
she loves you after five minutes. That’s not going to happen. Russian
women can appear cold at the beginning, but they are the sweetest women
once they open their heart.
Time in Getting to Know Her
You need to
invest time to get to know a Russian woman. Remember, Russia doesn’t have
a hookup culture. These women are not like American women. They are not
looking for one-night stands. They are looking for true love and falling
in love takes time.
everything she wants to know about you. Share your childhood memories with
her. Let her know about your interests and your hobbies. Connect with her
on such a deep level that she can’t do anything but to fall in love with
Communicate that You Want a Girlfriend
remember what I just said?
I said that
Russian women are not looking for one-night stands or short-term
relationships. They want all or nothing. She wants to be your loyal and
supportive wife, but only if you appreciate this desire.
words, let her know that you want a girlfriend and that you are not
interested in one-night stands. Let her know that you are a serious man
who is looking for a serious relationship. She will love you for it.
8. Be Her
One of the
main reasons why Russian women want to marry Western men is because of the
ideal image they have in mind. When a Russian woman thinks about Western
men, especially Americans, she imagines a gentleman who treats her with
This is a
side that she’s missing from the local men. That’s why it’s so important
that you open the door for her, give her compliments and bring her
flowers. Being a gentleman is the way to win the heart of a Russian woman.
Her with Russian Compliments
I’m sure that you will enjoy
your first date with your future Russian girlfriend. And yes, it’s very
likely that she will speak at least some English. So don’t worry too much
about communication problems. However, that doesn’t mean that you can’t
impress her by speaking Russian to her.
I don’t expect you to be fluent. All I want to say is that it might be a
good idea to learn one or two compliments in Russian. Just imagine her
face when you take her out to dinner and surprise her with a Russian
compliment. She won’t be able to stop smiling.
10. Let Her
Know that This Was Not the Last Date
you enjoyed the first date, doesn’t mean that the second date can’t get
better. She wants to meet you again and she wonders if you want the same.
Don’t leave her in the dark.
Let her know that you want to see her again and that you can imagine a
relationship with her. If you do that, she’ll look even more beautiful on
the second date.